It all started when my friend Mary forwarded me a list of furniture being sold by someone in her building. I noticed bookcases on the list and called the woman. You can never have enough bookcases, especially if you got some fun Christmas-era packages.
I spoke with the woman who’s moving, an Asian woman named Jean. We arranged a time for Donn and I to come see the bookcases and a desk. She told us “number 11, second floor.”
So last night we went to Mary’s apartment building, which is one of the nice ones in Agdal behind the lycee. We mounted the stairs to the second floor (3rd floor to Americans), and found number 11. We rang the bell.
The door swung open and a man greeted us with a huge smile and ushered us inside. His wife came to greet us, kissed my cheeks in welcome, and cleared a spot on the couch for us to sit. Their 3 young children eyed us without much curiosity and went back to watching some Disney program in English with Arabic subtitles.
This didn’t seem to be Jean. For one, she’d sounded Asian and I’d spoken English with her. This woman was Spanish and I was speaking French with her. I felt uncomfortable. But the man, named Ahmed, had by this point brought in mint tea. He poured with a flourish. He mentioned he was Mauritanian. “We lived in Mauritania, in Nouakchott, for 6 years,” said Donn in Hassiniya. Exclamations! Kisses! Offers of dates from Atar. We settled down with our glasses.
“So, when are you moving?” asked Donn.
“Moving? We’re not moving,” said the woman.
We asked if anyone else was moving. No, no one in their building, they said. Except, there’s an American woman named Marie who is moving in June?
We’re friends with her, we replied. She’s the one who told us about this woman who is moving. “She’s called Jean,” I said, the American pronunciation sounding harsh. No, no. They shook their heads. They knew no Jean. “Second floor, number 11,” I said. Yes, they agreed, that is this apartment. But they knew nothing of the situation.
We ate dates and talked of Mauritania, of Nouakchott and Atar, of how sad it is now that the entire country has destabilized and terrorists have moved in, kidnapping aid workers and tourists alike. “Chingeutti and Oudane are empty,” Ahmed said. Tourists are afraid to go there. Together we agreed—the Mauritania we know is peaceful and calm, its people welcoming. Ahmed himself is a case in point of this.
Just then their doorbell rang. It was our friend Mary, who was surprised to see us. Her printer was on the blitz and she had popped over to use theirs. “I didn’t know you knew them,” she said to us.
“We don’t,” we told her. “Where is Jean?”
It turned out that Jean lived in the OTHER building, second floor, number 11. Ahh. Crystal clear now. We said goodbye to our new friends and went off to find the right apartment and apologize for our lateness.
Today I told my Moroccan/Mauritanian friend about it and she laughed. “If I saw that in a movie, I wouldn’t believe it,” she said. I had to agree with her.
15 comments
January 20, 2010 at 4:02 am
Kelly @ Love Well
That is a story for the book.
So how long were you at the first second floor, number 11 apartment, making new friends?
January 20, 2010 at 4:14 am
ThirdCat
I probably shouldn’t be laughing as much as I am. And how interesting would it be to read a blog entry from their perspective?
I’ve been thinking of you a lot lately, btw, because I’ve been reading Paula Constant’s Sahara…have you read it? She goes trekking through your neck of the woods.
I could send you my copy when I’ve finished…
January 20, 2010 at 2:47 pm
janean
This is a pretty funny story and illustrates quite well a big difference in our cultures, don’t you think?
January 20, 2010 at 4:03 pm
LIB
It definitely illustrates a big difference in our cultures.
It reminds me of the idea that everyone is connected through six degrees of separation.
How cool that they could find a point of commonality with total strangers who knocked on their door!
It wouldn’t work, though, in a society that kept to a time schedule and didn’t allow time for serendipity.
January 20, 2010 at 8:24 pm
Deidra
Fantastic! 🙂 What a wonderfully random experience. Any excuse to make new friends, right?
January 20, 2010 at 10:47 pm
Carrie D
What a great story! I agree, I wouldn’t believe it if I hadn’t read it from you! Hope you get to visit your new friends again soon!
January 20, 2010 at 10:48 pm
planetnomad
Carrie, they invited us for cheb!
January 21, 2010 at 12:15 am
Tonggu Momma
I am just shaking my head, laughing. So how long did you chat it up with your new friends?
January 21, 2010 at 10:58 am
Regina
Hi Planet Nomad,
Regina here, for ExpatWomen.com.
I would like to personally invite you to list your blog on our Expat Women Blog Directory (www.expatwomen.com/expatblog/) so that other women can read about and learn from your expat experiences.
Many thanks in advance for your contribution and keep up your great blog!
Regina
January 21, 2010 at 3:19 pm
Linda
That’s so funny. My closest experience like that is when I had the wrong address for a dinner. It was for a lot of people and we found a house with a lot of cars so just walked in the house, me carrying my casserole. There were a bunch of people sitting at a long table looking at us wondering who we were. We were in the wrong house. Glad it wasn’t an orgy or something.
January 21, 2010 at 9:47 pm
Jennifer
This is so funny!
The closest experience I’ve had, which really isn’t all that close but somehow feels like it: once I’d promised to take my kid to a bounce-house play place (for good behavior), but when we arrived it was rented out for a birthday party, and the poor kid was CRUSHED so I peeked inside and lo, we knew the people who had rented it out. So we crashed their birthday party!
jennifer_babb@yahoo.com
January 23, 2010 at 8:25 am
LG
wow. you have got to go have cheb with them! i made poulet yassa last week, yum.
January 24, 2010 at 4:48 pm
MaryWitzl
That is a wonderful story! You have got to submit it!
Have you heard of Prole? I’ll try and send you the URL. They’re looking for creative non-fiction, particularly funny stuff or travel writing — and they pay, however nominally. You’re a shoo-in!
January 24, 2010 at 4:52 pm
MaryWitzl
Here is the URL for the blog: http://prolebooks.blogspot.com/
Can’t guarantee anything, but a friend of mine helped start it and I can vouch for him. And I’ve submitted to it too.
January 24, 2010 at 8:37 pm
Debbie
What a great story! Who’d of thunk it? Do you think you’ll keep in touch with them?