Sunlight filters down through shades of green; pine, birch, maple, fern. I’m sitting on the couch looking out the window, next to my friend Mary, who’s feeding her baby. Round us the children swirl, demanding trips to the park, to the woods, picnics and lake visits. We’ve spent the last week traveling, last-minute visits to family and friends. We saw my brother, took my mother on picnics and to the mall to people-watch, stayed up late night after night just chatting and catching up.
We leave this country soon. It’s been very strange, returning for a year and knowing it was temporary, to this place that in spite of our travels we still call “home”. We tried not to settle in, not to put down roots, but to a certain extent it was unavoidable. And so this feels a bit of a wrench, this move. Everyone feels a variety of conflicting emotions–excitement, concern, apprehension, sadness, joy.
We live out of suitcases, knowing for certain where nothing is, only that it’s there in one of those cases. We say goodbye to forests and trees and houses and people. Right now, we’re visiting friends in Bellingham, meeting their new baby and getting reacquainted with their child. Earlier we stayed with a family of 3 kids living far out in the country, a peaceful place guarded by tall firs, passing boats on Puget Sound still audible although not visible.
I love visiting families. One boy showed us his room. “It’s not as clean as it should be,” he informed us. The twins love babies; at one house, Abel puts the baby in her little swing and reads to her earnestly in French. Elliot carries a 5-year-old across the little stream in the woods behind the house.
We’ve been without internet all week, until today. Tomorrow we head back down to Portland, stop by to see my mother one last time, before we fly across the world.
If you had one week left in America before you moved back to Africa, what would you do?
22 comments
August 15, 2008 at 6:14 pm
Mary-LUE
Gorge myself on fast food and Starbucks? (I probably really would do that!) Not the healthiest choice, I guess. Have you seen that commercial where the little boy catches wind in a bottle and lets it loose later on? Wouldn’t that be great if you could bottle up a little of that Pacific NW air and take it with you?
August 15, 2008 at 7:13 pm
suburbancorrespondent
Eat American food and buy lots of mosquito netting.
August 15, 2008 at 7:36 pm
Jeanne A
Make memories. Enough to last for the next three or four years. Memories with your family and friends.
Give and gets lots of hugs.
And your cyber friends will still be with you—–no matter where you are.
August 15, 2008 at 9:29 pm
Mrs. Mccoy
Go to the dentist for a thorough cleaning.
Go to IN-n-Out Burger everyday.
Buy a lot of dental floss.
Buy a lot of sunblock.
Buy a water purifier.
Pack.
Pack a lot of Advil Cold and Sinus.
Go swimming in a cold lake everyday.
I think that’s it.
August 15, 2008 at 9:30 pm
Mrs. Mccoy
Oh, and eat berries.
August 16, 2008 at 6:36 am
jolyn
I liked the idea of the wind in the bottle. That would be cool.
I suppose I would just enjoy the green, the lush humidity of it all, getting ready to go to the desert again.
August 16, 2008 at 11:08 am
Mamasphere
Wow, has it already been a year? I started reading your blog just before you moved back to the States. Time really does fly.
Yeah, I’d be all about the food. And Portland has some great places to gorge on before you go!
August 16, 2008 at 6:07 pm
DodiM
Long time lurker here…. can’t believe it’s time for you guys to go already!
If I were leaving for an extended stay in Africa? I suppose I’d enjoy a lot of long, luxurious showers, trips to air conditioned places, and perhaps one more trip to the mountains where the air is cool and fresh… and that one last Starbucks!
Safe journey to you all, and I look forward to reading about where life takes you.
August 17, 2008 at 12:13 am
shannon
Eat my favorite foods and drink my favorite wine without thought to calories, fat, or my waistline, hang out with my favorite friends/ family, and steal that Barnes and Noble and gift certificate from my husband and sneak off to the book store one more time.
August 17, 2008 at 6:45 pm
LIB
Doing just what you are doing–spending time with family and friends.
Bon voyage!
August 17, 2008 at 10:40 pm
Karen
Hi there,
I’ve occasionally popped by your blog. I really enjoy your writting!
As someone who used to live in Asia (we just moved back to N.A. this summer….) I have thought about and lived through this question….
I’m thinking, if I were going back to Asia now, in a week, I would:
1)think of when I get back overseas, who will I have wished I had spent quality time with? Then possibly make an effort to spend some more time with them, or talk to them on the phone…. (note, I at this point I wouldn’t say “who should I spend time with?”)
2) I would spend some time just being out in nature, quietly breathing in the fresh air and enjoying.
3) ratchet down the activity level by a few notches, and get enough rest, as that cross the world travel and resettling in and getting back into routine is just exhausting…..
Wishing you all the best as you journey back to Africa! Journey mercies!!
August 18, 2008 at 6:32 am
iamkash
I would just CLING on to loved ones….and eat cheese.
August 18, 2008 at 1:38 pm
fluorophore
great question – and great answers!
Me? Hike a mountain, picnic out on the pebble beach, eat at a few favorite places. Put some photos in a mini-album. Take a bubble bath (or one every day!).
Remember to really savor every experience (taste, texture, silence, cool breeze) I know won’t be easy to come by in Africa.
Enjoy!
August 19, 2008 at 4:10 am
ShackelMom
Just what you’re doing now, and maybe eat some foods I know I won’t see (taste) again for quite a while. And maybe buy another book for the plane…
August 19, 2008 at 6:43 am
meredith
Eat lots of whatever you love and won’t be able to find in Maroc…
August 20, 2008 at 12:53 pm
Rebecca
I’m going to assume that I can also use Canada as an example. Lemme think:
– I’d go visit my grandma.
– I’d go visit my brother and sister-in-law.
– I’d zip down to Toronto and see all the rest of my relatives. And take a ride up the CN tower.
Pretty exciting!
August 20, 2008 at 1:02 pm
suz
Go to your favorite restaurant and coffee shop..take a long bubble bath and read a favorite book-call all your most special friends..one thing I have learned “home” is wherever you are with your husband and kids..enjoy!
August 20, 2008 at 1:58 pm
Becky
Spend LOTS of time with friends and family, enjoy Mexican food as often as I could, and go to church at my home church every Sabbath possible. I’d also stock up on peanut butter. :o)
August 20, 2008 at 8:23 pm
sarita
cry, take sedatives, visit friends, buy big baggie moomoos to wear 🙂
August 20, 2008 at 9:12 pm
Kelly @ Love Well
I think you’ve got the right idea. People matter the most.
And good food that you can’t get elsewhere. 🙂
August 21, 2008 at 2:44 pm
nan
Well, whenever I have a few days or a week in the states, I buy comfy cotton underwear, nice bras, good quality, um, panty shields and stuff. Then I do the pharmacy. Antihistamine cream, antifungal cream, antibiotic cream, drugs for everything, sunblock, first aid supplies. Art supplies, rechargeable batteries, um… I would not be too excited about eating myself silly because honestly, American food is not world-renowned. Maybe berries, okay. With cream. Oh, plug things so all of your stuff can plug in in Morocco. Voltage whatsits. Another cell phone charger, just in case, and an extra battery. An extra camera battery. Sneakers. In bigger sizes for your kids. A hat. Socks. Some chocolate, but don’t tell anyone. A few small gifty things, they will be so appreciated by your new friends for birthdays and such. Jeans in bigger sizes for the kids.
I had better stop there! Oh and maybe you could get a facial? A haircut? If you’re into all that. How are you feeling now? I know you were not so well for a while, I hope all is well now.
October 28, 2008 at 3:16 pm
Louise
I was in Seattle on Aug 23.. just missed ya