Last night, I had to take Elliot downtown for his Arabic lessons.
It turned out to be quite a complicated exercise. He’s taking lessons with a Lebanese man who lives in the Pearl, which is the new trendy part of downtown Portland, the part that until recently was abandoned warehouses, littered streets, and shapeless bundles of homeless people sleeping in doorways. Now all is new and gleaming and speaks of money, from the art galleries that have sprung up and reseeded themselves like dandelions, to the ubiquitous coffee and gelato shops, to a charming little farmer’s market. It’s a Stuff White People Like paradise! Of course, since it became so popular, you now have to pay to park in every single tiny spot for blocks and blocks around. (You even have to pay near Powells now. Outrage!) So his tutor comes outside and I drop Elliot off, then pick him up at the assigned time later.
This is the first time we’ve done a weekday evening session. Donn had a previous commitment, so I had a precious hour all to myself downtown. I wasted the first 10 minutes deciding what to do. Powells is near, but I didn’t want to pay for parking. I had a book with me (Memed, My Hawk…excellent. I will review it for you when I finish it) and my journal, so I decided to drive a few blocks to NW Portland, also very trendy and full of Stuff White People Like but with free parking, find a nice locally-owned coffee shop, and read and journal and people watch and window shop.
But I have become a parking wimp in Africa. While thanks to driving the savage streets of Nouakchott I now can pass with wild abandon and even drive on a sidewalk if necessary, I have gotten out of practice of parallel parking. So when I drove by the Starbucks with the parking lot, I decided to be boring and just go there. They have outdoor seating and it was a lovely evening, warm and windy and green and gold.
I had no sooner gotten my drink and settled myself at a sidewalk table when out came a barista wannabe to tell me that they were closing and she had to take the tables in. Closing at 8? Apparently so. I was cross, and it didn’t help that it wasn’t her fault. Surely it must be.
So I decided to go to a bookstore, and browse. They were closed too.
By now I only had about 20 minutes left. I sat on a park bench and read, and it was good, but not at all how I’d envisioned it.
Truly the world is not as it should be.
12 comments
July 9, 2008 at 9:11 pm
Kris
Alright, what’s up with this, huh? Its 9pm on a Weds night and you’re not online!
You went and got a life on me, didn’t you? /sighs No fair! I did NOT sign off on you getting a life and HELLO you know you’re supposed to clear these things with me! 😉
Anyway, I was hoping to see you and say Hi, but since you’re off having that life thing I’ll sit here and be totally lame. 😀
July 9, 2008 at 11:54 pm
Caffienated Cowgirl
Closing at 8? That’s so wrong…although the park bench doesn’t sound so bad.
July 10, 2008 at 9:48 am
Jennifer Bedingfield
Well-written blog, Planetnomad! I laughed out loud at your driving/parking antics.
Plus I can totally relate! That precious time alone is elusive…and difficult to manage! My kids are older now, and I’m getting more and more of it — and loving it. I have a hard time understanding people lamenting the “empty nest”. “Empty nest” = “clean, orderly and quiet nest”. Just my kind of spot.
But nights like you had help you appreciate the few alone-time minutes.
July 10, 2008 at 9:57 am
Shalee
Sigh. Why did the world not consult with you on your moments-alone needs. Stupid world.
Glad you found at least a few minutes to enjoy your book. Kudos to you for not taking it out on the girl. You’re so much more mature than I am.
July 10, 2008 at 12:33 pm
Pieces
That kind of thing has me nearly swearing off quiet coffee shop moments. Something always ruins it.
July 10, 2008 at 12:43 pm
Madmad
What a very cool blog! Mind if I poke around a bit…?
July 11, 2008 at 1:42 pm
LIB
Another strike against Starbucks! Long time readers will remember this is not the first time they’ve let you down.
Oh, and, as a fellow empty nester, I have to tell Jennifer B. that I totally agree! I think those people who are overly sad about the empty nest are people who don’t have a life of their own:)!
July 11, 2008 at 9:24 pm
jolyn
Nouakchott has sidewalks?
Seriously, so annoying. Makes you wish you could do a do-over and just go to the bench to begin with.
July 11, 2008 at 10:53 pm
planetnomad
Jolyn, well, not exactly. But there are wide sandy areas, with handicapped people and small children, and they come in handy for passing.
And, with a do-over, I would have STARTED at a small coffee shop, like I had originally planned. Or maybe just paid for parking and spent a glorious hour at Powells. Sigh…happy thought 🙂
July 13, 2008 at 7:36 am
poppyfields
Hehehe…we’re kind of having the same problem on our USA vacation. Like typical French, we’re showing up at restaurants at 8pm and they send us away telling us they’re closing. We had one “vending machine candy bar supper” in the hotel room because of that…which wasn’t a bad alternative 🙂
July 15, 2008 at 7:21 am
Rebecca
I haven’t had any time alone for months now…. am losing my mind.
July 17, 2008 at 3:00 pm
marigold
I love NoPo! Yes, lots of good SMALL coffee shops around, and good advice to yourself for the next time. Unfortunate that they charge for parking everywhere, now. Is Elliot’s Arabic tutoring his idea?